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My dad suffered a major stroke at the end of July and life has been one big chaotic emotional roller coaster since then with no end in sight.
I worry that all this stress will negatively affect my health.

September 19
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MyMyelomaTeam

First, so sorry to hear about your dad — that's an enormous amount to carry, and it makes complete sense that you're worried about how it might be affecting your health.

The honest answer is that research hasn't clearly established a direct link between emotional stress and SMM progressing to active myeloma. Progression is Show Full Answer

First, so sorry to hear about your dad — that's an enormous amount to carry, and it makes complete sense that you're worried about how it might be affecting your health.

The honest answer is that research hasn't clearly established a direct link between emotional stress and SMM progressing to active myeloma. Progression is primarily tracked through measurable factors like:

- M protein levels and type
- Plasma cell percentage in bone marrow
- Free light chain ratio in your blood

These are the markers your care team will monitor closely. That said, chronic stress can affect your overall health and quality of life in real ways — including inflammation, hormonal changes, and sleep disruption — which are worth taking seriously.

Some helpful ways to protect your wellbeing right now:

- Stay in close contact with your healthcare team and flag any concerns
- Prioritize sleep and eating well where you can
- Try mindfulness, meditation, or gentle movement if your doctor approves
- Consider speaking with a counselor — many myeloma centers offer this

You're dealing with a lot. Taking care of yourself isn't selfish — it's essential.

September 19
A MyMyelomaTeam Member

My MGUS progressed to Smoldering when I was taking care of my dying mom. Taking care of her was one of the biggest blessings of my life and I would do it all over again.
Paula🌹

September 22

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