The other day, I was told I am somewhat of a hypochondriac. Having the symptoms of MM and the treatment is absolutely not imaginary. Is the diarrhea or constipation caused by the treatment imaginary? Is the MRI showing degradation and pain in the spine caused by MM imaginary? Is the nerve damage that causes symptoms like numbness or tingling in hands and feet (peripheral neuropathy) imaginary? Is the extreme tiredness that does not improve with rest imaginary? Is the unintentional loss of weight⦠read more
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some people just don't stop to think outside themselves.....till it happens to them.And that was RUDE of them!
Gaslighting! I would say something snappy, like "Oh, you seem to know a lot about hypochondria! When were you diagnosed?", then I'd walk away. Unless it was my boss, that is! π
What matters is what you know. If someone made hurtful comments like that, we would never speak again - regardless of what the relationship is. Align yourself with compassionate people - you deserve that at the very least.
Robert, people are so narcissistic and self centered now. Don't waste another minute of your time and energy on this person. They probably don't even know what multiple myeloma is. They won't take the time to find out. I am very careful who I talk to about my health now. I hope you feel safe here. Big hugs your way π€
Hi RobertMonteiro, you do not have proof to anyone that you have an illness. Stay away from negative vibes. Negative will always talked your strength away that is pure evil. Stay positive young man. She sees that you are paining and does not feel good only you can feel your pain. You told what you are going through that should have been enough. Empathy should have been shown and not to be judgemental. Put yourself around joyful and positive people. Good attitude and been positive is the key. Try keep moving if it just front and back in the house.God bless.ππΌ
Tell them - They should hope they never get to know anything about MM