I haven't been able to figure out how to do private messages on this site.

I agree with. Some people want to share emails and phone numbers

I’ve seen emails and phone numbers blocked out.
Paula

I found that message page isn't different from regular comments. I thought it would be similar to f.b "messenger"

Sometimes a little privacy might help. We are all in the same MM boat, but some have added concerns and need information if they can get it. I agree